The Kids R Gone

When the kids are gone, the real conversations begin.

The Kids R Gone is a card game about love, truth, laughter, money, mistakes, and desire. There are no winners—only deeper connection.

Card sample questions:

SAMPLE QUESTIONS (BASE GAME)

❤️ Hearts

• What makes you feel most loved by a partner?

• What relationship lesson did it take you the longest to learn?

• What scares you most about love?

♣️ CLUBS — Crazy or Trouble

Ask about:

• Something wild, messy, or bad that happened

• Past relationships

• Trouble at work, with friends, family, or the law

• Lessons learned the hard way

♦️ DIAMONDS — Money & Effort

Ask about:

• Money or finances

• Gifts given or wanted

• Trips taken or dreamed about

• The most you’ve done—or would do—for a partner

♠️ Spades

• What’s a truth you’ve never said out loud?

• What part of you do most people misunderstand?

• What’s something you’re still healing from?

🃏 Wild

• Ask any question you want

OR

• Choose a kiss, touch, or intimate moment (consensual)

♠️ SPADES AFTER DARK

For when the kids are REALLY gone

Description:

This expansion is not for beginners.

Spades After Dark takes honesty deeper and desires further. Play only with clear consent and open communication.

Example Cards:

• What’s a fantasy you’ve never shared?

• When did you feel most desired?

• What do you crave more of in intimacy?

• Kiss your partner where they choose… slowly.

🔥 Suggested age: 21+